How to Follow Up Without Sounding Desperate
When a seller says, “I need to think about it,” it’s rarely about needing more time. It’s often about needing more clarity, confidence, or emotional space. Learn how to use this in your favor.
When a seller says, “I need to think about it,” it’s rarely about needing more time. It’s often about needing more clarity, confidence, or emotional space.
This objection is a signal, not a rejection. It means the seller may be feeling overwhelmed, unsure, or not fully convinced. Your job isn’t to pressure them into a decision, but to guide them through their hesitation in a respectful, helpful way.
How to follow up without being pushy
Here’s how to follow up after hearing “I need to think about it”, while keeping the door open and preserving trust:
1. Send a thoughtful summary
Send a short recap message within 24 hours. Example:
“Thanks again for the great conversation earlier. I totally understand needing time to process. Just to recap, we discussed [insert key points] and the next step would be [insert next step]. Let me know if any questions come up.”
This shows professionalism without pressure.
2. Follow up with a value add
Instead of repeating your offer, send something helpful, a seller guide, a market stat, or even a testimonial from a past client. Example:
“I thought this might be helpful as you think things through, here’s a quick comparison guide of selling on market vs. off-market. Let me know if you want to walk through it.”
You’re staying in touch, but giving, not asking.
3. Set a casual, friendly check-in
A few days or a week later, check in with low-pressure language. Example:
“Just wanted to check in and see if you had any questions after thinking things over. No rush, I’m here if you’d like to chat more.”
Short, casual, and buyer-friendly.
Scripts for every type of seller delay
Not all delays are created equal. Here’s how to tailor your follow-up based on what the seller’s hesitation is rooted in.
1. If the issue is emotional:
“It’s a big decision, I totally get wanting to make sure it feels right. Would it help if I shared what the process would actually look like step-by-step?”
2. If the issue is financial:
“Are there specific numbers or scenarios you’d like help walking through? I’m happy to run options with you, no strings attached.”
3. If the issue is trust:
“I know working with someone new takes trust. Would it help if I shared a couple of stories from folks I’ve helped recently in similar situations?”
Closing deals efficiently
Closing a deal is the ultimate goal, but it can be a complex process. Here are strategies to ensure a smooth closing:
Negotiation skills: Hone your negotiation skills to ensure you can secure the best deals for your clients. Understanding both sides' needs and finding a win-win solution is crucial.
Transaction management: Keep track of all the moving parts in a transaction. Use tools that help you manage contacts, reminders, and deal progress to prevent anything from slipping through the cracks.
Customer satisfaction: Ensure that your clients are satisfied with their experience. Happy clients are more likely to refer you to others and return for future needs.
Following up with data, not just feelings
Most sellers are trying to make a rational decision about an emotional problem. That’s where data-driven follow-up becomes your best friend.
Use insights from tools like Goliath to:
Reference real-time comps in your follow-up messages to support your offer.
Remind the seller of time-sensitive changes in the market (price drops, interest rate hikes, etc.).
Show activity from other buyers in the area to create urgency without using pressure tactics.
When you follow up with numbers, it feels like help, not hype.
Adopting a growth mindset
In real estate, continuous learning and adaptation are vital. Cultivate a growth mindset to stay resilient and open to new opportunities.
Embrace learning: Stay informed about industry developments and continue to learn new skills. Whether it's understanding AI in real estate or honing your negotiation tactics, knowledge is power.
Seek feedback: Constructive feedback can provide valuable insights into areas for improvement. Don't shy away from asking clients and colleagues for their thoughts.
Set goals: Clearly defined goals give you direction and motivation. Whether it's increasing your sales volume or expanding into new markets, having a target to aim for keeps you focused.
Managing stress and avoiding burnout
The fast-paced nature of real estate can lead to stress and burnout. It's important to manage your workload and prioritize self-care.
Time management: Use time management techniques to ensure that you're working efficiently. Prioritize tasks and set boundaries to prevent overwork.
Delegate: Don't be afraid to delegate tasks when possible. Whether it's administrative work or marketing tasks, freeing up your time allows you to focus on what you do best.
Self-care: Make time for activities that help you relax and recharge. Whether it's exercise, hobbies, or spending time with loved ones, maintaining a work-life balance is crucial for long-term success.
Leveraging technology for a competitive edge
Incorporating technology into your real estate practice isn't optional anymore. It's essential.
Automate follow-up with tools like Goliath so no lead falls through the cracks.
Use CRM systems to organize your pipeline and segment follow-up sequences.
Rely on AI-powered lead scoring to prioritize outreach and focus on the hottest leads first.
By streamlining routine work, you free up energy to have more meaningful conversations, the kind that close deals.
The fortune is in the follow-up
Sellers rarely say “yes” on the first call. That’s why follow-up isn’t just a step in the sales process. It is the sales process.
Learning how to follow up without being pushy is what separates top closers from the rest. When you mix empathy, timing, strategy, and automation, you build trust, and that trust leads to signed contracts.
If you're ready to follow up like a pro (without chasing), Goliath can help you automate your entire pipeline, from the first message to the final yes.
Written By:

Austin Beveridge
Chief Operating Officer
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